Using fabric softener and dryer sheets at the same time is generally not recommended. Both fabric softener and dryer sheets are designed to soften fabrics and reduce static, and using them together can lead to over-softening and potential fabric damage. Additionally, using both products simultaneously might result in a buildup of chemicals on your clothes and in the dryer, affecting its performance over time.
If you prefer using fabric softener, you can add it during the rinse cycle when you're washing your clothes. Fabric softeners come in liquid or dryer sheet form, and the liquid version is meant to be added directly to the washing machine's fabric softener dispenser.
If you prefer using dryer sheets, simply toss one or two sheets into the dryer with your laundry. The heat from the dryer will activate the softening agents on the dryer sheet, providing the desired softness and reducing static cling.
Ultimately, the choice between fabric softener and dryer sheets comes down to personal preference. Some people prefer one over the other, while others may choose not to use either. If you find that your clothes are soft and static-free with just one of these products, there's no need to use both. Experiment with each option to see which works best for your laundry and suits your preferences.